Brute Reason

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You’re not wrong or stupid for wanting an explanation for why someone is dumping you, but if you push for reasons you are going to hear either weak polite excuses (“It’s not you, it’s me“) or an awkward illumination of your less attractive qualities. This may be useful feedback down the road, and it may be useful now if it fuels your pride and anger, but do you really want someone who has decided they don’t want to be in a relationship with you explaining in detail why being with you is sucky? Is there really a logical reason they could give that would make you go “Oh, okay, that’s perfectly understandable, good day to you, sir!” The fact that the person is breaking up with you is the reason why it’s over. Believe the facts, sort out the reasons later.

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